This is a beautiful idea. I wrote to my late husband every night for much of the first year after his passing, but I never thought of writing from his point of view. I've often thought, and still do, of remarks he'd make if he could see me, and even more so his sons, now. I also want to ask if you've heard of Ohana Oasis (https://www.ohanaoasis.org/) -- an organization founded by a former colleague of mine, Heidi Low, who lost her daughter to cancer. Its purpose is to support parents through the work of healing and to help them find their way back to joy (while encompassing their loss -- not "getting over it"!). Some of the folks reading your newsletter might want to check it out.
No I've not heard of it. I'll check it out, thanks for sharing the link.
While I will never get over it I feel like I've made strides in the past year to learn to live with it. Some days are definitely better than others, but none are great yet.
Wow. I love, love LOVE your channeling of Twenty-eight, that piece was my first intro to his work and yours. I hope my husband would be happy with where I am, and hopefully he would not be too pissed about my handling of his huge piles of ‘stuff’. I dream about him fairly often and do have flashes where I feel him near, but the full-on haunting he promised to perform if possible, is apparently not a thing. Still, I am always watching for signs…
I hear you with the "stuff." It's a lot to deal with. I feel like Curtis would be disappointed that I'm suuuuper slow going through his. And I'm sure he was pissed when I eventually sold his dream car.
I envy you having frequent dreams. I think I've only had 3 that I am aware of and it makes me sad. I want more.
Curtis was supposed to write messages in my steamy bathroom mirror too lol. But alas, none yet!
One was a vivid dream, and I cherish it!!! It felt ‘sent’ and left me with a ‘Dave’s OK’ feeling. It was bizarre but so comforting. Others I have woken knowing he was in the dream but they are all the kind that fade like mist as you wake. I hope they are just too busy with non-corporeal stuff and we can expect more sendings! 💜🤗💜
This is a beautiful idea. I wrote to my late husband every night for much of the first year after his passing, but I never thought of writing from his point of view. I've often thought, and still do, of remarks he'd make if he could see me, and even more so his sons, now. I also want to ask if you've heard of Ohana Oasis (https://www.ohanaoasis.org/) -- an organization founded by a former colleague of mine, Heidi Low, who lost her daughter to cancer. Its purpose is to support parents through the work of healing and to help them find their way back to joy (while encompassing their loss -- not "getting over it"!). Some of the folks reading your newsletter might want to check it out.
No I've not heard of it. I'll check it out, thanks for sharing the link.
While I will never get over it I feel like I've made strides in the past year to learn to live with it. Some days are definitely better than others, but none are great yet.
This is so beautiful. My loved ones would say, "Have faith."
Good old faith. Something we have to keep close to ourselves every day ❤
Thank you for reading and sharing Suzanne.
I think you'll find it impressive. And they're definitely not after your money (something always to watch out for).
Wow. I love, love LOVE your channeling of Twenty-eight, that piece was my first intro to his work and yours. I hope my husband would be happy with where I am, and hopefully he would not be too pissed about my handling of his huge piles of ‘stuff’. I dream about him fairly often and do have flashes where I feel him near, but the full-on haunting he promised to perform if possible, is apparently not a thing. Still, I am always watching for signs…
I hear you with the "stuff." It's a lot to deal with. I feel like Curtis would be disappointed that I'm suuuuper slow going through his. And I'm sure he was pissed when I eventually sold his dream car.
I envy you having frequent dreams. I think I've only had 3 that I am aware of and it makes me sad. I want more.
Curtis was supposed to write messages in my steamy bathroom mirror too lol. But alas, none yet!
One was a vivid dream, and I cherish it!!! It felt ‘sent’ and left me with a ‘Dave’s OK’ feeling. It was bizarre but so comforting. Others I have woken knowing he was in the dream but they are all the kind that fade like mist as you wake. I hope they are just too busy with non-corporeal stuff and we can expect more sendings! 💜🤗💜
My ONE super vivid one was soooo comforting to me. It's the one in my viral angel story and I'd give almost anything to have another like it.
As far as the ones that fade like mist, I'm familiar with those kind too. I just wish they could be vivid and longer ❤ Always hold out for more 😇