A soft and personal piece. Sweet, the same and different at the same time. What go me sharply as I was reading was the things people say to you when you tell them somebody died. Its like they don't hear the words in their heads before they come out of their mouths. <sigh>
I think it's ok to say, "I don't know what to say". to someone who is grieving, especially if they have just lost someone, so long as it's said in a kind way. And I hope, better than any ignorant or hurtful sentiments.
I've learned so much from reading your posts Kristi. If there's anything I hope people will finally understand, there is NO TIME TABLE for grief. Also, be willing to listen if that's all someone needs. Or simply BE with them. ❤️
I loved this, Pooja! Brought back memories of the tilted-axis world after my mother’s death. So many rituals and comforts are lost with our mothers! 💜🤗💜
A soft and personal piece. Sweet, the same and different at the same time. What go me sharply as I was reading was the things people say to you when you tell them somebody died. Its like they don't hear the words in their heads before they come out of their mouths. <sigh>
Thank you for sharing, Pooja. I've found grief is only understood by the grieving. Thank you, Kristi, for this group and a safe place to fall.
❤️ A beautiful piece of writing, Pooja!
I think it's ok to say, "I don't know what to say". to someone who is grieving, especially if they have just lost someone, so long as it's said in a kind way. And I hope, better than any ignorant or hurtful sentiments.
I've learned so much from reading your posts Kristi. If there's anything I hope people will finally understand, there is NO TIME TABLE for grief. Also, be willing to listen if that's all someone needs. Or simply BE with them. ❤️
Beautiful ...
I loved this, Pooja! Brought back memories of the tilted-axis world after my mother’s death. So many rituals and comforts are lost with our mothers! 💜🤗💜
Beautifully expressed, Pooja. I hope this piece finds a wide readership: it will resonate with many.